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                            BROTHERS    

 As brothers grow older, age has taken away the bond that brother’s formed growing up. Now brothers have their own family to take care of. In this, lose touch with the brothers that was there when they where young. Brother’s are there to share the bond of a family that was always there growing up at home. What a shame to lose that strength they once shared together. Yes, we had fights, but shared feelings as well and even more than that we shared life! We should see a brother as a friend that should not be taken lightly. What a shame to let this happen to a family that we always had since brother’s are the first family we ever really knew growing-up. We can understand how this bond may decrease somewhat, as we grow older. We would also think that once we grew up, we would see a friend that we have always known in a brother. Even when brother’s fight, pick, and made fun of each other, brothers were always there in times of need. We only need to see the void in our hearts of not remaining brothers through out our lives. There are so many people that are not fortunate enough to have a brother at all! Where would we be now without growing up with the brother that we had grown-up with? Yes there are differences in what brothers feel and the lifestyles may not be the same, but these things need to be over looked and realized that everything we've gone through growing-up we went through it together through good, and bad times. Since we do not always carry that bond through out our life together, were truly missing a lot. It’s a sad saying that you can pick your friends but can't pick your family. It is sad to think that we have chosen to leave a brother that has helped us grow-up only to become a stranger in our life. When we learned so much from older brother’s mistakes and actions and seeing which road not to take, and share our thoughts to gain a trust that brothers earn over time; only to find this doesn’t always carry on through-out our life. At one time it was said that friends come and go, but a family remains, sadly enough this is no longer the case. Cause we have lost that bond between our families and now friends remain. However, instead of working to change this we let each other go on through life with out the bond that once was so good to have. Where as, adults we no longer have the time for the brothers of yesterday. Through good times, bad times and in different times a friend, when threatened by others. Forgetting all that has been shared no matter what brothers meant something to our life. Where we would have missed all that has come to be a gain through the years at home with a brother. Turning a brother’s heart away after growing together, is throwing a friend away we would have been lost without in the life at home. So where is the brother of yesterday now? Some people find brotherly love means just that. However, finding so many people have lost touch with their brother can make us realize, what we shared as brothers has become a memory of what used to be.  If realizing that we haven’t talked to a brother in quit a while, maybe we should also realize there is a need to reach out, and get reacquainted with the brother of yesterday. If we would ask one thing of our brothers of yesterday, it may come to be this: My brothers we shared good times and hard times together. Yes we have grown to be each of our own person but my brothers the heart is still there, and why is it that even though we don’t come to believe in the same things. Why can’t we be brothers again? To except the people that we have grown to be, and respect each other’s feelings to be true brothers once again. To all my brothers I wish that I could truly get all of us together and bring the words from my heart to light, and show you just how much you have brought me to see and understand. Because no matter what, I feel that I was truly lucky to have much older brothers like you.  Although we may not see things the same way, we have one common ground and that is our mom. She is the rock that kept our family going all our lives and a part of her is within each one of us and has shown the strength that love has if and when we decide to embrace it.

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